My house is a wreck

I have a toddler, a full time job (that seeps well into my "off" time) and a husband that works 12 hour swing shifts. My house is 9 times out of 10 a wreck. There are toys everywhere, Cheerios everywhere, socks everywhere, dishes everywhere, there are things smeared into my carpet that I can't even identify anymore, there has been more milk dumped on my carpet than I'd like to admit and my son has peed in places that you might sit. Guess what. I don't typically care. I try to keep up with it. I do the typical housework, but when you have a little one at home unless you are home all day long there is no "keeping up". It turns into a huge marathon clean on Saturday and Sunday and by Thursday you wouldn't even believe that I had tried. Please don't be offended by our home if you pop in to visit and if you are offended then you probably don't have a toddler and a full time job!